Loneliness Is A Result of Computer Tech

When I was growing up, we had all kinds of things we could do to keep us busy, fulfilled and connected with others. In fact, our parents went out of their way to sign us up or introduce us to new groups, clubs, etc.

Part of the focus for us kids was to make us independent. Parents wanted to be sure we had skills, friends, places to go to learn new things and that concern bled into all aspects of being human.

The church we went to was not so important as the values it taught. It gave us a good base for right and wrong, treating others fairly and helping each other when we could see a need.

Life skills were taught in groups like scouting and guides, boy and girl clubs and more. Specific skills like swimming came from centres that taught us to save ourselves. Art courses were everywhere like painting, drawing, making models, etc.

And of course, there was always sports which became part of schools and other groups. Parents and family attended regular soccer games, hockey events, baseball, etc. It was always something that came up at meals and television also emphasized the pro version of many athletic pursuits.

These events and activities allowed us to make relationships and made our days richer. We shared common interests which always made for a good friendship. There were also intellectual pursuits like chess groups, radio clubs, car enthusiasts and science affiliations.

Sometimes these activities led to careers but all of them built character and taught us about life. Perhaps it is time to fall back on these kind of activities that do not involve computers so that we can have real life adventures and actually make new connections that are meaningful.